Oh, and James: At the first reinstated Art Students' League Costume Ball, Marybeth and I went as a bride and groom. I was the bride. As for me being the butt of the story, the point was-- in my position, it would've been better to be kindly to all others who were way far out on a limb, and not waste time looking for people who were different only like I was different, because that's nobody, anyway. Right? Bill: If you wound up with a philosophy degree, you will have seen my long shadow at least. I got the Fac award in '88. What this proves is that your professors seemed to believe I exist. Sigh. I am missing the mantle of "mystery woman" already.

P.S. I am still Spam Ramsley.